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Five of My Son’s Favorite Children’s Books.

Hello and Happy Sunday! My mom I spent the entire day outside enjoying the sun, the park and great conversations while watching my son playing at the playground. It was warm and sunny today and it seems everybody else had the same idea than us.…

Spring is in the Air.

Hello and Happy Saturday!  The last couple of days were filled with this blooming, warm spring feeling even though it was actually pretty cold outside. Today was gorgeous however. Spring is my favorite season of the year. For me it means new life. I already…

Five Things.

Hello and Happy April Fool’s Friday! 

So my husband asked me today if I detected any April Fool’s pranks so far. Well looking at the “news” blankly while shaking my head I have to say that most articles I read or saw are a joke anyway.  If you are in need of some ideas for a prank, check out this link.  I also realized that I don’t have to move to the Bronx or Brooklyn to see street/gang fights, drugs and crime. The police just patrolled the area here in this otherwise quiet, children-friendly neighborhood and almost arrested a bunch of kids who were drunk, screaming and beating each other up. I wonder sometimes what is happening in this world. I try to stay sane and don’t worry or judge too much but I think at the same time to what extend I am able to influence who my son hangs out with when he gets older. As parents one should be a role model and show children the right way that is least harmful for them while leading by example. I want to protect him of gangs like this, you know. But will I be able to? Time will tell. My week was full of awesome things otherwise. Read on if you would like. 

Reading: I read Der Trick by Emanuel Bergman and this book kept me up reading until late at night. It is seriously that good. I found out about this wonderful book  one evening at my favorite bookstore Riemann when the owner Martina Riegert introduced it to a room full of passionate readers. Ulrike Radecker (Riemann Team) introduced  Sally Andrews’s Recipes for Love & Murder that evening and I love love love this book. This is my first book by a South-African writer but will most certainly not be my last one. Book reviews will follow soon! 

Watching: I finally watched Anomalisa and I loved it! If you get the chance, do watch this movie. This video that is very special to my husband and I. Also, check out this trailer about the movie Vaxxed from Cover Up to Catastrophe. The movie was prohibited to be shown at the Cannes Film Festival. Why, is the question! You can see it at the Angelika Movie Theater in New York and hopefully at many other movie theaters. Then again, I am excited about the news that Woody Allen produced and directed a new movie. Café Society it is called and will play soon. I cannot wait. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XraVnGsYqTk

Discovering & Learning: Have you heard about Geocaching? Say whaaaat? I have heard about it a couple of months ago when I was walking outside with my friend Susi and her two sons. Her elder son told me to check a little Kodak Film tube that is attached under a park bench. I was a little skeptical at the beginning about anything attached and glued underneath a park bench but then I took a closer look anyway. I opened it and there was a little handwritten note with coordinates in it. What the hell? I was even more surprised when I saw this poster at the Leipzig Book Fair.

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I remember that Susi’s son talked about this like it is the most normal thing on this earth and everybody does it. He explained that it is a somewhat worldwide treasure hunt of some type. With GPS you try to find these little containers that are hidden somewhere. Traditionally, they are waterproof (Kodak Film tubes and whatnot) and contain trade items and a tiny log book inside. Trade items or little treasures are usually not worth much but it is just a fun thing to find one. I googled geocachers and found out that there are worldwide approximately 15 million! who participate in this game. Insane, no? How come I have never heard about this? As a child I loved to play treasure hunting but as an adult? And yes, adults are into this as well. All you need is download the app and you are in. 

I learned today how easy it is to make perfect sushi rolls. Yay for homemade sushi and sushi cravings. I was even able to make the Japanese rice which I thought I could never do. Piece of cake, or piece of sushi. 

This week was full of discoveries. One word I learned is Tsundoku. It originally is a Japanese slang; “tsun-doku”. [「積ん読 and  came from 「積んでおく」 “tsunde-oku” (to pile things up ready for later and leave) and 「読書」 “dokusho” (reading books). ]  Are you guilty of buying tons of books and piling them all over without reading them?  If you suffer from Tsundoku, the chances are pretty high that you will never be able to finish all these books. I am guilty in a way myself but actually I am not too bad. I do read most of my books but many times I do purchase some and have not even finished the one I am currently reading. But honestly, I can never ever go to my favorite bookstore and just look around and buy nothing. I ALWAYS buy one book whenever I go in there. I currently have seven books on my to-read pile. Not too bad indeed I reckon. 

I loved to find new galleries in New York. I mean everybody knows the big ones like MoMA, The Met and Guggenheim). But what about all the small ones that are all over Manhattan and Brooklyn? Time Out New York is pretty amazing to be up to date on what is going on in New York City culturally and culinary but also this app specially for the little contemporary art galleries. 

Loving:  Notebooks, holy Notebooks. I love them and they make me happy. I like to plan and organize everything and this little blank notebook is so great to do so. It is by the publisher Suhrkamp and you can order your here. 

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Two blog-planners that I use and work for me are the one-year editorial blog planner Epic Blog and this smaller version Blog On that is great as well. This is how I schedule my blog posts in advance. 

Looking forward to: To see my husband and travel again. I need some Vitamin “Sea” and of course the adventure. Congo is next on the agenda. Or Mexico, or, or, or….. 

What have you been up to? I would love to hear from you. Have a great weekend. 

How I make My Marriage Work.

Hello and Happy Thursday.  It is funny that many want to hear relationship or marriage advice from me. Like if I have it all figured because I look so happy. Keep in mind that things are not always how they seem and that nothing is…

How to: Aloe Vera/Cucumber Smoothie.

Hello and Happy Wednesday!  A couple of weeks ago I asked my mom about this huge plant in my son’s bedroom and that I have no clue what it was. My mom gave me the side-eye and told me that it is one of her…

Walking and Learning while Enjoying the Silence.

Hello and Happy Tuesday! 

My mom, my son and I took a long walk around a lake today. The sun was shining and in the air was the beautiful springy feeling that we all looked forward to for a long time. Being in nature, especially walking through woods makes me happy. This is a place where I am the most content. It is peaceful, I have time to think happy thoughts and just be. Actually, while walking outside most of my blog ideas are being created. 

My mind has been somewhat busy this morning after I read the news. I do read the local newspaper daily just to have a greater picture on what is going on in the world. Usually, I feel miserable reading anything about politics and whatnot. This morning I read that German singer Roger Cicero passed away last Thursday due to some type of apoplexy or stroke. Just like that. He just gave an interview two days ago and explained that he is looking forward to his tour in April. I don’t know too many songs by him but what struck me was this realization that my life could be over in one second. Any second. Any day. I tend to forget sometimes and take my life for granted. I think it is very important to keep in mind that we only have this one shot and have to make the best out of it while we still can. It can be over so quickly. While I thought about all this in the morning my grandma came over to talk a bit while she was on her way back home from this little gym she joined. Not a gym-gym. Just movement therapy for the elderly but c’mon; she is 81 years old! I looked at her and thought that it is amazing that she is still here and walks and thinks clearly. So we chatted and had a cup of coffee and she left. Sweet, I thought. Life is sweet. 

While we drove to the lake this afternoon my mom put her hand on my leg and said, “I am glad you are here.” I loved this so much. When we walked we were quiet for a bit. Just walking and breathing in air, listening to birds while my son threw stones in the water and waiting for a train to come by. For some reason I remembered how she sometimes got ready to go out when I was a child. This did not happen too often, but sometimes. Her clothes, her perfume  (forever Issey Miyake) and her old leather purse. I thought about how she smiled at my siblings and I  before she left, with her blond hair and these laughing eyes. The thing about my mom that I admire is that she always did her own thing in a way. Sometimes in this quiet way but she was doing it while always being there for us. Today I realized again how lucky my siblings and I were to have my mom just the way she was. Of course not every day was happy-sunshine, but most of them. My siblings and I of course disappointed my parents, did crazy stuff, smoked and whatnot. But in the end, they were always 100% behind us and did so much more.  Today in the car my mom even remembered kid’s songs because my son wanted to hear one. I write this a lot but it is true – it is the little things that count! The normal everyday things that remind me so much of my childhood and how I grew up. 

Now I have a son of my own and I do understand even better how much hard work my parents must have put in throughout the years. A childhood that my siblings and I can look back at any time and say without a doubt that we had the best childhood possible. Looking and listening to my mom now, I do understand why she made certain choices in life. When I was a teenager I thought I would never ever be like my mom (or dad) but now, looking back, they were not that bad after all. I share so many good qualities with mom – qualities I am proud of and I have a plethora of memories of any kind with my parents.

We have actually been at the same lake when my son turned one-year old.  We celebrated his birthday right there on a park bench, bird watching and eating chocolate muffins. Perfection! 

While we walked back to the car we observed an awesome sunset, it became a bit chilly and a couple passed us. I was just about to say something about them when I looked at my mom and she said nothing; she just played with my son. I realized then and there that I do not need to judge anybody because who am I to judge. I have enough to learn and improve within myself. Someone walks by and does not look the way I want him to look? Well, I am not walking in his shoes, right? They live their own life. Who knows what the person is going through. Again, who am I to judge!

By the time we made it back to the car I realized that my life is perfect the way it is. And if it would be all over, I would be fine with it. No regrets – nothing, just peace. 

The Idea of Us or How I got Over a Break-Up.

“Romantic love is not the only love worth seeking. I’ve met so many people longing to be in love with somebody, to be rescued from their daily lives and swept into romantic bliss, when all around there are children, neighbors, friends and strangers also yearning…

The Book Review: The Cruise of the Rolling Junk by F. Scott Fitzgerald

“My affection goes with you – Rolling Junk – with you and with all the faded trappings that have brightened my youth and glittered with hope or promise on the roads I have travelled – roads that stress on still, less white, less glamorous, under…

L’Amour Fou.

Hello and Happy Saturday! 

Are you currently in a relationship or marriage? Is he/she your type? I never thought I did have a type. I have many friends who date only certain kind of men/women. Some only love the business/manager/big money kind of guy. Some only go for the six-pack, sun-tan guys and others only for nerds. Well, I always thought I am open to anybody who is interesting, regardless of the clothes he wears or the car he drives. [What I always want to find out is, WHY do men honk when they see a woman they apparently like on the street? I never get this. What am I supposed to do? Go up to your car, open the door, get in and we live happily ever after? Or come up to your car at the red-light and start a conversation? I am getting off on a tenant here, sorry!] 

So, here I am, open-minded and full of love to find the one without really looking for him. Because this is apparently the only way to do it.

And then I met my husband. And the optimistic side of my brain that thinks about rainbows, sparkles, fun and ponies [not damn BronyCon!]  – said YES, he is awesome! 

Anybody who asked me in the beginning what he is like I would say, “So French!” and left it at that. What made him so interesting to me was that he checked off pretty high on my self invented men-list. He is tall, strong, brown eyes and of course French. His wine glass is usually half full while mine is half empty. He is older than I but not too much. Juuuuust about right. He loves to write and read even poetry [duh, French] and it was  surprisingly refreshing [really damn hot!] when he read Rimbaud out loud in French. Since the beginning of our relationship he spoke this weird language I did not quite understand. I am not talking about his accent which is sweet. Hah!

We always have long conversations and he is really interested in what I have to say. He thinks I am funny [well I am, so he better laughs about my jokes even thought sometimes I am only 50% funny]. He knows where he is going with what he is doing 99% of the time which I don’t. He has a pretty real, confident picture on where we are heading together in life which I don’t.  All I need to do is trust his theories and calculations but this is easier said than done sometimes. [bad experiences!] But this is for another post. With him I have the feeling that I found my type of man who I like to stick with. Kind of like this. We just have a lot in common. I knew we are on the same page in many situations because we are both from Europe. This might sound weird but for example we know that it is just normal to eat cucumbers, tomatoes, bread and cheese from dinner. Or we both give McD and its french fries the little side-eye. He also knows that if I am quiet for too long, something is wrong. Unconditional, as we both said pretty early into the relationship. 

The best part about it all is that I can be myself as much as he can be himself. We don’t want to change each other. Eating sweet-popcorn-with-the-computer-on-his-lap-while-he-is-actaully-sleeping-and-just-pretends-to-watch-the-movie-with-me-because-he-thinks-the-movie-sucks. And me, the sometimes complete mess-exxagerating-miss negative-who-brushes-her-teeth-with salt toothpaste only-while-making-breakfast and reading at the same time. And all that, is everything! This is what is important. 

Do you have a type? I would love to hear from you! 

Five Things.

Hello and Happy Friday!  So this week was crazy and stuffed with so many little things that I lost track there for a bit and realized I have to slow down, stop and breathe to smell the roses again. Realizing that everything could be taken…


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